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AI Wedding Vows Generator

Tell us about your partner and your story. We'll write vows in your voice — not a template you copied from Pinterest.

3 free generations per day. No signup.

How to use this generator

1
Pick the tone honestly
Don't pick "mostly funny" if you cry at every wedding. The tone shapes every line. Heartfelt with light humor is the most popular choice and feels natural for most couples.
2
Share specifics, not generics
The line "I love your kindness" is forgettable. The line "I love how you remembered the barista's name after one visit" is unforgettable. Specifics make the vows yours.
3
Include real promises
Vague vows ("I'll always love you") feel weak. Specific promises ("I'll keep making you laugh on Tuesdays when life is heavy") land. Tell the generator your actual promises.
4
Read aloud, then edit
Wedding vows are spoken, not read silently. Read your generated vows out loud — if anything feels stiff or unnatural, rewrite that line in how you actually talk.

Tips for a great vows

  • Don't try to write the world's best vows — try to write yours
  • One specific memory beats five generic compliments
  • Keep them under 2 minutes for ceremony pacing
  • Match your partner's vow length so neither feels small
  • Practice in front of a mirror — comfort comes from familiarity
  • Print on cardstock — paper trembles when your hand does
  • It's okay to cry — guests expect it, partner deserves it

Frequently asked questions

How long should wedding vows be?
Most couples land at 1-2 minutes spoken. Under 30 seconds feels rushed, over 3 minutes loses the room. Aim for medium length unless your officiant says otherwise.
Should both partners write vows the same length?
Yes — coordinate ahead of time. Mismatched vow lengths (one person reads for 3 minutes, the other for 30 seconds) create awkward energy at the ceremony.
Can I include inside jokes?
One small inside joke can work if your guests can follow it. Too many and the vows become a private conversation in front of an audience. Keep most lines understandable to everyone present.
What if I'm not religious?
Skip the "Traditional and formal" tone — it leans religious. Choose "Modern and casual" or "Heartfelt with light humor" for secular vows.
Should I memorize or read?
Read. Even pros forget lines under emotional pressure. Reading from a card is universally acceptable and lets you focus on delivery, not recall.